I try to avoid conflict/confrontation at all costs, however sometimes that seems to be more damaging. I tend to put myself through a lot just to avoid confrontation. I would climb Mt Everest just to get around someone or something confrontational. I really need to learn how to deal with it better.
I don't like conflicts/confrontation...but i have learned that if i don't deal with it only hurts me in the long run. Recently i found out i have been betrayed/lied to by some people i love ,and i luv them so much that i tend to over look stuff. They think they are smart and think that i dont know but little that they know that "all things done in the dark alwayz tends to come to light".
What do you think i should do? Get to the bottom of it and lose those ppl i love or should i act like i dont know and keep those ppl in my life.
5 comments:
if you love them and they love you then when you confront them things will only get better. if things go down then maybe you should cut your losses and go on with less baggage!
I would get to the bottom of it.
(I'm so direct and to-the-point, no?)
Either way you don't have anything if you think about it...so I think you should get to the bottom of it...
Man by allmeans get to the bottom of the matter by confronting the source(s), let them know that you are hurt as a result of their actions. Communication is always best, talk it out.
Thanks guys....i actually did get to the bottom of it and i ended up getting hurt.But now i know i can never let something like that happen to me again.
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